“If I get married, I want to be VERY married.” -Audrey Hepburn
Weddings are meant to be the most important day in a lot of people’s lives, but recently those special days have been derailed as we figure out what our new future looks like. For some, however, the love they share cannot be broken & as cases here in Orange County are dropping the act of planning a wedding in the time of COVID can seem like a challenging task.
The truth is that weddings in the time of COVID can be safe if done correctly & for many it shows how their love can withstand even the most challenging of tasks as things change at a rapid pace.
If you or someone you know is looking to tie the knot this year, we’ve compiled a short list of some helpful tips collected from others who are saying “I do” in the safest way possible. Check them out below!
1. Consult everyone
If you already have a wedding planned towards the end of the year, or if you already had to postpone your special day talk to everyone on your “team” to see where everyone’s head is at and what would be best going forward. Don’t rush to make a decision without talking to your partner, wedding planner, the venue, and the caterer to see what can and cannot go as planned. Work with the vendors to find a date that can work within schedules and state guidelines.
2. Talk about what can’t be changed
Have a conversation with your partner and your wedding planner to determine what you can and cannot compromise with. Are you willing to scale back your guest list? Are you open to the idea of an outdoor venue? Is it safe for elderly guests to attend? Just have a conversation about what you are willing to adapt to so you understand where your hard lines stand.
3. Be Spontaneous
We know that your wedding is a big deal, and it’s meant to be your special day, however coming to the table with the concept of spontaneity in mind can really aide you in getting to the ceremony as quickly and as safely as possible. We are sure you’ve heard how we are all trying to adapt to the “new normal” as we all work together to create a safe future. Being willing to work with new options can lead to an amazing story to tell for years to come.
4. Consider a smaller guest list at an outdoor venue
This seems to be the safest option for everyone involved in your big day. Keeping the guest list on the smaller side & holding the event at an outdoor venue can keep everyone safe while following all state guidelines for preventing any spread. An addition to this is that we are moving into the cooler part of the year & many venues can come to life in the fall or winter months with vibrant colors.
5. Consider a virtual wedding
We know that it’s no one’s perfect idea or first choice, but it’s a completely viable option for those who have a large number of guests wanting to attend the ceremony. Zoom weddings have been very popular this year, and there are several ways you can do it in a way where it makes sense & it brings everyone together to celebrate love. Incorporating a Zoom aspect into your special day can really help bring the guest list to life in a new way where everyone can come together from all over the world.
6. Consider a postponement
It’s no one’s first choice, but it might be worth the wait. If you have specifics in mind that you don’t want to compromise on, and they can’t be done at this point consider moving the wedding ahead 12 to 14 months for ample time of advancement. Your wedding is your special day & postponing it doesn’t mean the love between you & your partner is any less real. Postponement can be the right choice for you, and you are not alone. Many weddings have been moved into 2021, and it might be something to consider.